momma's boy

the consequences of dating a "momma's boy"..?
boy oh boy.
looking back on my track record - that's all i seem to attract. or maybe they all seem to attract me..

my advice:
don't even try unless you're willing to do everything mom can do and has done..and then some.
things that his mother has been doing for him for the past however many years.
once guys are spoiled, in my experience, there's really no turning back.
the bar has been raised, the standards have been set.
whether it be by a mother, older sister, girlfriend.... they always have a bar. and they always remember the best...there's a reason why they have a hard time letting go..
you better be a great cook.
you better like to rub his back as he goes to sleep.
you better allow him to get his way more often than not.
otherwise, he'll be dissatisfied.
and when a man is dissatisfied, they have no problem finding satisfaction in other places.

luckily. i enjoy spoiling the men i'm interested in. at least the ones i'm really interested in, but more so, the ones who deserve it. it's kind of how i've always been - allegedly. i enjoy seeing another's satisfaction over mine. take that how you want to.

i enjoy being the source of his happiness as long as he plans on being the source of mine. you can't expect to be spoiled in a relationship unless you're giving your share.

i won't go into details, but when two people "spoil" each other with love, the results are

mind blowing.